I have decided I have to stop hating you...because I realised I do/did hate you, it is the only thing that makes sense of why you would still be in my head after all that you did to me and the fact that when I see you (which is hardly ever thank God!) all I feel is disgust and loathing!(You are so stupid you would probably think the reason I don't look at you is because I am scared of you but no is because I don't want to throw up from all the disgust that I feel, you literally make me sick!) But it has to stop because it's bringing bitterness into my life and I don't want that in my life. I have been through so much heartache in my life and not allowed those experiences to keep me bitter, so there is no way in hell I will your bitterness rub on me!
I have decided to forgive you, not because you deserve it because really you don't (seeing as you don't acknowledge or apologise for what you did wrong) but because I deserve to stop letting this weigh on me and my heart. I deserve to be able to let all these bad feelings go. See forgiviness is about letting myself off the hook and letting go, it's doesn't say it's ok what you did (because it's not) but I need to forgive you, for me!
So just for one last time I will say everything like : You are a complusive liar, a cheater, a gambling addict, a cold hearted, self centred, using, fat bastard! You hurt me a lot and I was so very angry at you for that but it's time for me to let it all go. I also need to forgive myself for letting you into my life but at least now I know you trust my instincts when it comes to people, as you proved my first instincts right!
You see life is great for me, it's not perfect but I have a man who loves me, I have my beautiful kids, my friends and family. I have my singing and going to America this year and I am studying at uni. So see my life is just too busy to be wasting my time or breath on ANY thoughts or words of you.
You didn't deserve me at all and if one day you actually grow a heart I am sure you will see what you did wrong but since you have a victim mentality, I know you don't realise what you did wrong, as everything is always someone else's fault, never your's but that is all your issue now and not mine.
I thought you broke me but it didn't take me long to realise you didn't break me at least not in a bad way. Something in me broke, something good. Because of you I know that I deserve better and I will never let another man treat the way you did or others did in my life. You were the straw who broke the camels back, after having men treat me badly and with disrespect throughout my life, I will no longer put up with it. I would rather be alone the rest of my life, then ever left a man think he can treat me badly. Now it's you treat me with respect and how I deserve or you will be gone! So thank you, as the experience of you has made me even stronger than I was before.
So I don't hate you anymore and I forgive you for all you did to me. Goodbye and good riddance!